Pardon me, but there are times that life is draining. I praise each day, I somehow experience extreme difficulties at times. These things also create goals in a sense, as I will work diligently to overcome any obstacle to greatness. Now I am certain, that is a positive outlook. 

We have control of our emotions. How often I say, "he made me so mad". Well, "he" could only make me mad if I allow him to do so. I choose not to allow anyone to upset or have a negative affect on me. This is a very important choice to make.