As I learn and grow, I'm fairly sure a "mid-life crisis" is simply a matter of perspective. If crisis is the opinion of the mid-lifer, it's highly likely they fear this new stage of "adulting". Growing beyond raising children, running a busy household and putting concern for others at the forefront can be intimidating. I see it for the opportunity it presents for self evaluation and potential reinvention. I'm still a Mother and Partner, but I see myself. An ideal time to broaden the definition of ME.
Now, should said crisis be determined by an observer, well.. Many possibilities as to why they think so. Presently I'm confident that those who see crisis fear growth. Or they may not recognize the newfound sense of freedom many mid-lifers experience. I share my knowledge of the experience thus far. It's up to them whether they will be participants or commentators.
As of this writing I'm confident this next chapter holds immense promise. I'm really just becoming an adult and I'm loving it. 😳
